Dating sucks.
I think most readers of this blog are lucky enough to have a special someone in their lives, so you'll have to imagine a time long long ago. I swear, it must have been easier(pre 2000)to meet other singles. I have no doubt in my mind that if I were transported to 1949, 1955, 1967, or 1978 I'd be married no problem. It seems like being married was a priority in those days(for both men and women). If my current self was transported to those years, I'd be considered a freak. A 30 year old single gal, imagine that! I think that must be what they called a "spinster" or like my older post mentioned, the evil witch.
On a side note, being single(society wise)right now is not a bad thing. There has been quite the swing of the pendulum and now it's alright to be 40 and unmarried...
My issue is I do not want to be single. I want to be a wife.
I know that I should not think about it and go on living my life, but then that's easier said than done. It's like not scratching your chicken pox.
I'm sure the don't think about it advice is annoying. It is probably kind of like when I was trying to get pregnant and people told me that I should just get drunk and have careless sex. Or even worse the just relax advice. Ugh.
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